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Most problems can be resolved if you just have compassion for your partner’s needs. Credit: Shutterstock

27.Show No Compassion

When asked, a group of respondents thought that someone who lacks compassion is the least appealing attribute, thus could lead to a higher divorce rate. When you are dating, it might be difficult to tell if someone lacks empathy. You seemed to be having a pleasant time with little to complain about it. Alternatively, if you both deal with similar troubles and annoyances, it will be easy for you to empathize with and relate to one another. Compassion, on the other hand, becomes increasingly crucial in a relationship as time passes. This is true in both directions. For example, men can be entirely uncaring about their wives and the difficulties of raising children alone at home. Women, on the other hand, may lack empathy for their husbands’ arduous work. (Or, if gender roles are reversed, vice versa.) 

After college, a male buddy of mine landed a job paying $70,000 a year. His girlfriend was ecstatic, so they decided to live together. Unfortunately, the job itself was also a health hazard. His partner had no compassion for him and would not listen to him tell him about his day. He was depressed and had terrible mental health due to his employment, so he decided to leave. He broke up with his girlfriend due to she was just interested in the money. After a few years, he is considerably happy and on his way to developing a multimillion-dollar business. She would be there to celebrate his accomplishment if she truly loved him and cared about him. If you are in a similar circumstance, I’d think it’s a red flag that you should file for divorce.

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