How to Phrase Asking Favors
No one likes to feel like they owe someone a favor, but everyone enjoys feeling needed. This psychological insight can be incredibly useful when asking for help. Instead of making your request in a way that feels burdensome or manipulative, try phrasing it in a way that appeals to the other person’s desire to feel important.
For example, instead of saying, “I need your help,” try something like, “You’re always so great with this, could you help me out?” This subtle shift makes the person feel valued rather than obligated, increasing the chances that they’ll say yes. Just be mindful not to overuse this technique, or your friends may begin to feel taken advantage of.
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