#49: Prioritizing Self-Interest
Growing up under your parents’ roof often means limited independence and a sense of obligation. You rely on their provisions, live by their rules, and might feel powerless to say no, given their care and support. However, there are moments when you must prioritize what’s right for you, even if it means making choices that defy their expectations.
It’s essential to clarify one thing: receiving kindness or assistance from someone, even parents, doesn’t create an unbreakable obligation. This belief can lead to unhealthy cycles of guilt and dependency. Ultimately, making decisions prioritizing your well-being and personal growth is a valid and necessary part of life. While family bonds are significant, individual growth and happiness matter too. Striking a balance between fulfilling responsibilities and addressing personal needs is an ongoing journey, and asserting autonomy, even if it disappoints others, can be essential.
